Age Secrets of Sarah Ferguson

At the age of 50, Sarah Ferguson, the Duchess of York -- currently facing investigation for her ‘cash for introduction to royalty’ scheme -- is in a year of ego communication expressed as Leo-Gemini, consolidating (and so is her ex-husband, Prince Andrew, which could be very interesting!).

Like a 2-year old child, her ego does the communicating this year and it is likely to be 'me me me' all the way. If thwarted, she may not throw a tantrum at the supermarket, prostrate herself, foam at the mouth and pull all the dog food cans off the shelves, but her social skills this year are definitely going to be similar to that of a 2-year old child.

At 50, she is a proud communicator, expecting everyone to bow and kowtow to what she considers to be her superior eloquence and knowledge. The sad thing about this year for Sarah is that she will be seen as a pompous ass in much the same way as the 2-year-old is seen as a spoilt brat.

On one hand she has a desire to communicate and tell people how wonderful she is and how much she knows and who she knows -- and it may very well be worthwhile for them to hear it -- but few people are going to listen to what she has to say when it is designed to puff herself up at their expense.

Also, because her ego is heavily involved in what she says, she is likely to be incredibly sensitive to criticism. She wants to be right at all costs. She wants to talk longer and louder and smarter than anyone else. A gentle criticism or a misunderstood exchange could lead to major confrontations, or a total communication breakdown.

The lesson for the 50 year old this year is to control your communications. Keep quiet. Say nothing, write nothing. The more said the less control over what is said and the more likely something foolish comes out. Sarah is more likely to be ridiculed than applauded this year.

The most frightening scenario for those in the ego communication year, with an ego heavily invested in what he or she says, is becoming a sitting duck for mischievous others to manipulate into a caricature of a pompous ass for their amusement (as the fake sheik Mazher Mahmood did).

A 2-year old deserves understanding for ego driven behavior because his speech and self-control has not yet developed. At 50 there is no such understanding. Even people who would not generally enjoy torturing others tend to get stuck into ego communicators, so if Sarah has a great deal to say this year she should put it into writing and hold off publication for two years and then return to it and assess how much is worthwhile knowledge and how much is simply an ego trip.

Read the original age secrets Age 2, 50, 98

and check out:
Age Secrets of Prince Andrew

Sarah Ferguson’s Libran Balance

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