secrets of your age

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February 25, 2007

Difficult Relationships

You can use the Secrets of Your Age on many levels, but it is particularly useful for understanding difficult years that you or your family and friends are going through.

Mostly, clashes pass within a year but phases last for 12 years and by far the most difficult phase is the emotionally charged years of the dreaded 4th Phase. In the years from 36 to 47 we know we are losing our youth -- and are prone to lash out in emotional frenzies -- and in the years from 84 to 95 we know we are losing out on life itself, and our emotions can also get out of hand.

More difficult, however, is the lasting clash between people with a particular age difference. There is a natural opposition between people 6, 18, 30, 42, 54, 66 or 78 years apart -- when one person needs help, the other is always self-asborbed; and when people are the same age or 12, 24, 36, 48, 60 or 72 years apart they are going to be so similar in mood that they are unable to help each other in times of need.

When choosing a life partner or preparing to start a family, avoid oppositions and be wary of 12 year age differences. The very best age difference between people is 4, 8, 16, 20, 28, 32, 40, 44, 52, etc. All other age differences are variable, with even numbers being more favorable than odd numbers.

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