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February 24, 2007

Age 6, 54, 102

EGO RELATING
Cycle: energy/consolidation/change
Phase: ego
Phase Type:energy/consolidation/change
Year: social
Year Type: energy
Expression: immature relating/proud relating/philosophical relating
Astrology: At 6 you're Aries-Libra (opposition) and energizing; at 54 you're Leo-Libra and consolidating; at 102 you're Sagittarius-Libra and changing.

Ego relationship could mean narcissism, a pathological love of self, but usually it means seeking out relationships with people who boost our ego in some way. It could be hero worship or the halo effect. Either they are good looking and make us look good, or popular and make us seem popular, or any number of other possibilities. Or it could be someone less fortunate than ourselves who makes us look good by comparison.

At 6 there is an opposition between ego energy (aggression) and social energy (relationship), typically expressed as being bullied or being a bully in a close relationship. It's an age when we reach out to make our first best friend only to learn that close relationships involve risk. At 6, little hearts tend to get hurt -- and possibly lash out in revenge. It's also an age where a child hero worships someone in his life - such as a teacher - or a pop singer or sportsman.

At 54 and 102 we also tend to discard existing relationships that don't boost our ego. Discarded relationships can include family members and old friends who embarrass us. If we've put up with someone who's dragged us down for years, this is the year we tend to have sufficient ego power to tell them to go.

If someone dumps us this year, especially someone our egos depended upon, we are likely to suffer abject humiliation. Ego relationships are dangerous at any time, but particularly so at 6, 54 and 102 because at these ages we definitely need to bask in someone else's light as well as our own.

At 54, it's a ideal year for a flashy marriage to someone very rich, very beautiful or very talented. Make sure, though, that they have something more substantial going for them as you've got some hard years ahead.

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